How negative people can change your life positively ?
Mindset of negative people
- There is only 1 person who can achieve a big thing which is not you.
- Not everyone can do it.
- You don’t have guts to do it.
- You can’t do it because others are already doing it.
- You haven’t seen the real world.
- You are still a child.
- All things you see are fake.
- You can’t go out to do something not related to study.
- “Standard Education” is the only source to become successful.
- Dropouts are stupid.
- Blame others for your own fault.
- Repeat the past experiences again and again.
- Listen to other people and share those thoughts to family members.
- You can’t survive living alone.
- Always argue.
- You are too old to do new things.
There are many more of this but I want to end it here. What if we take opposite meanings of them ?
Opposite of the above mindset
- There is none who can’t achieve a big thing.
- Everyone can do it.
- You have guts to do it.
- You can do it because others are already doing it.
- You have seen the real world (Everyone lives in real world, isn’t it ?).
- You are not a child, your are a grownup.
- Not all things you see are fake.
- You can go out to do something which is not related to study.
- Standard Education is not the only source to become successful.
- Dropouts are intelligent.
- Blame yourself for your own fault.
- Do not repeat your past experiences.
- Don’t listen to others and don’t share those thoughts with family members.
- You can survive living alone.
- Never argue.
- There is no age to achieve things.
You saw how all things turned into positive manner. So, next time if someone says to you “You are so dumb. You don’t know how people will laugh at you. Don’t you do that thing. You can’t even stand on the stage” Your thinking must be “I am not dumb. I know that people will laugh at me. I should do that thing. I can stand on the stage”. This is how you boost your confidence. If someone says “Don’t share that with me. It is very boring and you are so stupid to do that” you should reply “Okay, thank you for letting me know. I won’t share it and thanks for helping me.” They tell you that you are doing something new and you just need to share it with someone who has a like-minded thinking. It will also let you know if that person is interested in your things or not. You will save a lot of your time if you don’t send them newly completed accomplishments. Believe me they will be in that situation and will need help. But be sure to help them because we are positive people and our work is to spread positivity.
Best wishes from me, have a beautiful day to you who is reading this. Smile more :)